negative thinking?

(i wrote it when i was replying to someone in one of the 'psychology communities' in orkut on this topic)

A coin has two sides.You can see only one at a time.Everything in this world comes with some bads and goods....and so does any event, situation, condition, we face.A majority of us see only the bad side of it, as it is the one which can be noticed easily by all of us.I have found out by observing many of my friends that, majority of us do that....and very few can see the other(good/positive) side of it.whenever, we face any event/situation/condition we go through three stages:
1)we face it
2)we analyze it
3)we conclude
Most of the time, people skip stage-2, and they go directly from stage-1 to stage-3.That is, as soon as you face it, you conclude that its something bad or good...without analyzing it.It is here, that, most of the time we end up concluding it to be bad, though there may be something good.Here, i just want to strees the point that you spend some more time on the stage-2 before going to stage-3.There is always something positive which we miss(as its simple to notice bad than good)